Ebony and Toffee

Toffee in Ebony

Yes, I know, it should be “Ebony and Ivory” but the title sort of summed up our house sit in Kent and neither things are what you may think. Before heading to the sit we had arranged a few get-togethers which we love. No matter how far we travel, for how long or what amazing things we see, meeting up with friends and family is always top of our list of the best way to spend time.

Hello Again! 

How patient and welcoming are our friends and family? In their eyes most of the time we are swanning around, yet turn up on their doorsteps intermittently for a long overdue catch-up. We are not that demanding, we do actually let them know in advance that we will be in the area and would like to see them! The family get-togethers included seeing Jon’s Mum and her partner, Norman and staying with both our youngest and middle sons. We even managed a great JWalking day in London with Sam, Tabitha and Ryan (Ella was flying to some European destination but I am sure would rather have been pounding the streets with us).

Meeting with friends from our dim and distant past is always a highlight of any return to Kent. Tim, Caroline and their new additions to the family. “Mr” Fudge and Ben their foster dogs.

Mr Fudge and Ben

Then it was onto Keith, Nicola and their son Jake and an introduction to his girlfriend Gaby. We go back nearly 40 years with both couples and it always seems like yesterday we were last together. Not being a lover of inspirational quotes generally I usually ignore them but a long time ago I read this one and it is true. “There are friends and there are family but there are also friends that feel like family“.

A Kentish House-sit or a House-sit in Kent?

It was time to get back on the road to our next house sit. Not very far this time only to a little hamlet near Tenterden in Kent called Ebony. We met Tim and Marylyn, the little Jack Russell Shihtzu cross called Toffee and the two independent cats Treacle and Crumble.

When we arrived we saw that Toffee was wearing a pet cone and were giving the sad news that a few days before we arrived she had walked through the embers of a bonfire and had badly burnt her back legs. She looked so sorry for herself and was quivering in discomfort. She could hardly bare to put her paw on the floor and had to be lifted out into the garden. The vet had prescribed some antibiotic cream and painkillers and it was just a matter of letting everything heal. She was so good letting us apply the cream to her legs which were obviously so painfully raw. Within about 48 hours we could see a difference in her and she even ventured out into the garden unaided.

The cone of shame had to remain on to stop her licking and opening up the healing blisters even though she kept bumping into everything and is scraped on the ground a bit because she was so short. Poor thing!

Toffee in Ebony

Once we knew she was comfortable with us and was in less discomfort we started to explore a little. Although I was born and grew up in Kent and we lived there for over 20 years bringing up the children there are still pockets we have never seen and this was one of those pockets. Ebony is part of the parish of Stone-cum-Ebony which has less than a hundred residents. Ebony is in what is called the Isle of Oxney. This is an area of Kent that was originally cut off from the rest of Kent by the River Rother. Over the years the river silted up and changed direction so the “isle” as such no longer existed but the area retained it’s name. Despite only being a few miles from Tenterden and Ashford it feels extremely rural with no noise pollution and fields upon fields of sheep.


Ebony Tenterden


Belated Birthdays and Long Overdue Reunions in Tenterden

How could we resist arranging a few visits to the restaurants and coffee shops of Tenterden when we were so close to our former home town of Maidstone? After 18 months of sending dates back and forwards, we eventually managed, with only 48 hours notice, to meet up with more long term friends. This time it was Trevor, Sharon and their son, Barnaby. We had long enough for a walk around the market, a few shops and a bowl of yummy soup in Peggotty’s Tea Shop.

Peggottys tenterden

The belated birthday outing was for one of the Pink Ladies, Becca, at Prezzos. It also gave me a chance to take a look at the beautiful wedding album Becca and her husband Dan had put together for Lydia and Nigel whose wedding we all attended in October. It was a book of happiness and joy and perfect record of the day. A bargain Prezzo’s outing courtesy of Becca’s 2 for 1 compare the market deal meant we could natter and eat our way through a lovely evening but we won’t forget the advice from the waiter on the cheesecake!

‘Just looking for a top’

The Bluebell Coffee House was the meeting place for a day of “just looking for a top” with my friend Wendy. Wendy knew the owner of the coffee shop so it was a really friendly welcome and natter before heading off to the shops. Tenterden has many good clothes shops but, after pitstops in Laura Ashley and Phase Eight, we popped into Mint Velvet for a browse. It was at this point that Wendy exploded with delight at a leather biker jacket. Little did I know that she had been hunting high and low for one such jacket. The explosion took on a whole new level once she tried it on and saw that it fitted like a glove. “Just looking for a top” turned into “buying a leather jacket” but it did look great and she obviously felt a million dollars in it. SOLD! After a disappointing quiche experience in Judges Bakery, we had one more shop to go in Elizabeth Rose, a rather nice “ladies” shop that Wendy had spied from the car park. There were some lovely items in this shop but far too good for me to dog walk in but I have banked the location for future reference. Wendy reverted to “just looking for a top” mode and fell in love with a beautifully embroidered white linen blouse. SOLD! A disappointing quiche was worth the hit for two great purchases and a day full of laughter.


Kentish Places Old and New

This has been such a great house sit because of the socialising and the mix of being able to see parts of Kent that had fond family memories. A wintery walk along the beach and visit to the Village Cafe for a bacon sandwich at Dymchurch for instance. It was something we did for a few years on New Year’s Day with our sons and a place that for many years Jon would visit as a child with his family. Then onto places that we had never seen Appledore, Wittersham, Peasmarch and Iden.

Dymchurch Kent

Dymchurch Kent

How’s the Patient?

Despite what sounds like one long list of socialising and roaming around, we did to care for Toffee and aided her recovery. The cone of shame could be removed during the day as long as we kept a beady eye on her and she even joined us on the tennis court as ball girl for the odd knock about session that we had.

Toffee in Ebony

Toffee in Ebony

It was lovely to see her true personality emerge and she was obviously feeling so much better. It reminded us what a great thing TrustedHousesitters is because Tim and Marylyn would probably not have been able to leave Toffee in a kennel with her injury. Luckily, chief nurses Jonno and Jo were on hand and, although it was a huge responsibility, we were only too pleased that the trip could go ahead and we could care for Toffee, the most patient patient.

Toffee in Ebony

29/10 – 08/11/2018

Ebony and Toffee


  1. Amazing what you can find on your doorstep but odd that you have to travel the world to end up finding it. I’ve been to most of those places but most;y for football or cricket and never to really explore. Appledore is a nice village and also famous for its Turkey Farm.

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  2. Mr Fudgeand Ben look adorable. I presume that as they’re foster dogs they are on the look out for a forever home. I do hope they find one. Poor wee Toffee, I did feel for her. It must have been hard for the owners to leave her in such a state. It’s an honour to know they trusted you to care for their poorly fur baby. That’s a house sit you’ll remember. Well done you two.

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    • Mr Fudge and Ben found our friends through the Cinnamon Trust. This is a national charity that places pets for the elderly or terminally ill and can no longer care for them. The Trust covers any vets bills and tries to place them for breaks etc. Such a great charity.


  3. I didn’t realise how lovely Kent is! “The Darling Buds Of May” land. All those lovely coffee☕️shops. An ideal house sit, staying in such lovely surroundings and being able to catch up with family and friends at the same time. Glad Toffee is on the mend, poor little thing, he had two great carers though. After reading this, I want to go and visit some of those towns and villages in Kent👍🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿

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    • Thank goodness Toffee is a strong little thing and hopefully she will avoid anything that smells like ash in future. Get to Kent. Whitstable, Rye and Broadstairs on the coast are lovely. Tenterden, Canterbury, the list goes on and on. Enjoy.

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  4. Oh poor little Toffee! That look she’s pulling on the pictures with her “cone of shame” around her head… It’s to die for! I’m glad she’s doing ok and hopefully she learned from the experience.

    Kent looks fantastic, I never really gave it much thought but it looks gorgeous!

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    • Toffee was certainly a cutie (as you can see from the photos). Not sure she would have sat still long enough for lots of cuddles in her normal fit and healthy day to day routine but we loved it.


  5. Hi Jo! Thanks for the lovely virtual tour of Kent – it’s an area I don’t know at all and have never been. Your housesit looked lovely but poor Toffee – good to know she’s on the mend. We arrived at our new housesit in France a couple of days ago – we used TrustedHouseSitters too. This time we have a small farm to look after and a dawn to dusk routine to maintain but we are up for the challenge. Love your posts. Keep up the good work. Trav and I hope we can bump into you guys one day – we have so much in common!

    Janice xx

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    • Thanks Janice. Enjoy your house sit in France. We move on shortly to another sit in the UK over Christmas. Bumping into you at some stage in both our travels would be great. As you say, lots of common ground and experiences to share. J


  6. What a cute little doggy !!! Kent looks lovely. I have never been to U.K but am going in April. Have house sits lined up in Bristol and Buckie, Scotland . Along with some plans to explore.


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