Wow, that wedding really took it out of us! One of the most fabulous days ever but we felt shattered a few days later and really needed the week to fully recover. Perhaps it was the excitement or the pom-poms, who knows?
It’s been a couple of weeks since the ‘big day’ of Shaun and Katies Wedding and we seem to have done a mini-tour of places starting with ‘M’ for some reason.
Post Wedding and Honeymoon Business
The morning after the night before saw a few thick heads and a reasonably quiet breakfast before we set to the task of clearing away everything we’d set up previously. Signs to take down and tables to clear and of course Pom-Poms to remove. It’s always much quicker to tidy up than set up so before we knew it we were saying our goodbyes to family and friends as we set off for our next housesitting assignment up in Derbyshire.
Before we left however we presented the happy couple with a final wedding present which was a surprise honeymoon trip. We’ve always loved surprises in our family with countless birthdays and christmases being celebrated in all sorts of unexpected ways. The honeymoon was to be no different. Apparently these days it’s not called a honeymoon anymore and is known by the ridiculous name of a minimoon. The honeymoon bizarrely comes a year (or two) later. Jo and I are not at home to minimoons so this was a definite ‘HONEYMOON‘ as far as we were concerned.
So Shaun and Katie were instructed to be in their car, engine running, all packed, at 3pm, when they opened the first of several ‘honeymoon’ cards. The first told them to get to the Basingstoke Hotel in Hampshire where they had dinner booked and an overnight stay. Next morning at breakfast the second card was opened which directed them to the Red Funnel ferry port in Southampton where they were booked on a ferry to the Isle of Wight. Third card opened as they left the ferry directing them to the Lakeside Park Hotel & Spa in Ryde. A fourth a couple of days later gave them a couple of spa treatments so hopefully the ‘honeymoon’ week away was just what they needed and will be something they can remember forever.
Housesitting in Matlock
Whilst Shaun drove south we travelled north to Derbyshire and the lovely little village of Matlock on the edge of the Peak District. We were due to be looking after a little Cavalier King Charles Spaniel called Toby for a week. After meeting Pamela, who left the following morning for a week in the Lake District, we settled in with plans to explore Matlock and make the most of our stay.


Unfortunately two things conspired against us. Firstly the weather was awful virtually all week and it seemed to rain almost constantly putting paid to our exploration plans and long summer walks. Secondly, and probably far more impactful, was that we hadn’t realised just how tired we were after the wedding. It took us days to sort ourselves out.
Toby was a delight though and so easy to look after. He was affectionate and unbelievably well behaved and our twice daily walks were great even when we got a bit wet. The only real problem walking Toby was that he seemed to know every human and every dog in the area and loved to stop to socialise constantly.

The week raced by and before we knew it we were back on the train heading for our hometown of Maidstone in Kent.
Jobs, Jobs, Jobs in Maidstone
One of the main reasons for the ‘Return to the Stone‘ was for doctor, dentist, specsaver appointments plus a bit of shopping to replace a few of our clothes that were on their last legs. I needed new walking boots as my previous pair had been wrecked by the Scottish mountain of Schiehallion along with t-shirts destroyed by McDuff the Strimmer.
A few sociable lunches and nights out with family and friends completed the week nicely. Oh and we went to see ‘Dunkirk‘ at the Odeon Cinema, what a classic! Such a great film and it has to be one of my ‘Top Five’ war films now. If you haven’t seen it then sort yourself out and run along tonight.
Now here’s something interesting, well it might be interesting depending on what you’re interested in. We’ve slept in close to 130 different beds since we started this JWalking life over two years ago and the most comfortable by far has been the beds we slept in at the Travelodge in Maidstone. Who’d have thought it eh?

Meopham House and Dog Watch
Currently we are still in Kent but now up in Meopham near Gravesend where we are looking after a lovely house and an even lovelier labrador called Beatrice. Two weeks stay where we’re planning on getting back on track with some online business and a few emails as well as spoiling Beatrice and getting some long walks in.

Do you get it?
We have met up with quite a few old friends and family members over the past few weeks and obviously chatted about our strange non-conformist life a bit. People are naturally interested and we’ve had all manner of questions relating to how we live, why we do it, and all sorts of other things. It’s fascinating for both of us as everyone appears to fall into two distinct groups. There are the ones that really, seriously don’t get why we’re living like this and struggle to understand us at all. Then there are those who totally get it. They understand completely what we do and why we do it. I suspect that there are more that don’t ‘get it’ but it’s no problem as we’re all different and whatever floats your boat is okay by us.
So. Do you ‘get it’?
23/07 – 06/08/2017
Yep, I get it!
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You’re a big ‘get it’ girl aren’t you? Looking forward to seeing you guys on Friday.
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Definitely get it. It’s obvious that it works for you. Maybe you should use the alphabet to sponsor your Housesits and Helpx. Next month it could be the letter K taking you to Keighley, Kettering & Knutsford!
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Love that idea. Need to get the maps out now to work out a schedule.
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I so get it! Cute dogs x
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We know you get it Lydia and you’re right about cute dogs. they obviously match us don’t they?
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“It” obviously suits you; and the house sitting idea is fabulous ( but have there been other pets to look after or is it only dogs??). Keep posting the pet and garden photos xx
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We’ve had a couple of cats Dawn but tend to go for single dogs if we can. Ducks were the best in Hertfordshire, loved them.
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Lack of interest, because secretly they want to do it, just ain’t got the energy to do it 🙂 To be honest, only travellers get what we do and that’s why it is brilliant connecting up with other bloggers and housesitters! Another thing is that people don’t really need to get it as long as we are happy doing what we do.
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You may be right, as long as we enjoy our lives that’s all that matters isn’t it? It is nice for friends and family to understand it though.
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Absolutely Jonno. You are right it would be nice for more people to understand. End of the day, I really don’t mind, as well as we are healthy and happy doing what we do. Different for us we don’t have children.
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Certainly I get it.
Matlock is lovely, as is Meopham.
As for Maidstone, well I’ve lived nearby and am still not too far away. The less said about it the better, I fear!
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Probably right Mick. Although returning to Maidstone occasionally it’s not as bad as when we lived there permanently.
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I’m sure that’s true. I did love the countryside around Maidstone (We lived near Wateringbury), but I’m not a particularly town person anyway, and most of Maidstone is either too modern and bland, or too run-down for me.
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We were out in Barming so not too towny. Know what you mean about it being bland and rundown though, its changed so much in the last 10 years. For the worse too.
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Yes, Barming was nice. I used to walk through there.
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We get it 100%…..
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Glad to hear it Devon Dwarves.
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I get it 100%. What an amazing way to see more of the world and equally share in the way others live. I bet you have met some very interesting people.
One day I might follow in your footsteps …..
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We’ve met so many fabulously interesting people Deb and lots of them have become friends which is so much more than we could possibly have hoped for.
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Ed definitely gets it and wants you to come back sometime!
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Ah we miss Ed and would love to see him again soon. And you guys of course.
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Oh I certainly get it. We receive similar feedback about our peripatetic lifestyle. Either blank faces or pure yearning to do the same but held back by an unadventurous spouse. Keep it up guys.
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It’s disappointing when old friends don’t understand isn’t it but we’re all different and everyone has their own path to travel.
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That’s what makes life interesting.
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